Pathologically Selfish?

You cannot have a wrong personality, personality being indeterminate in terms of a person`s actual nature.  However, you can of course have a wrong character, one which is objectively destructive.  It is only on the basis of personality that younger females place their assessments of character, and totally unrealistically obviously.  Where deception is the desired outcome, and even when its not, character itself however can on occassion be suppressed until such time as the object of desire is sought, and/or, until there becomes a given fresh hold of emotional leverage, come subjective circumstance.  This can be years hence.
Character might be considered pathological which in the absence of conscions is endemically wayward or deceitful.  Character which for instance would routinely ignore a girlfriend`s suffering, and even add to it, for a further progression of the self ego.